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Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Thread Started on Jan 22, 2008, 6:23pm »
Hey Fellas, Its me, D.Rich of Just My Thoughts. Since The ladies always have questions for us, I wanted to ask a small question to them to get a response, My question was this,
"Whatever happened to the barbeques ,fish fries, cookouts, and people just having fun and keeping it real??? Its like we don't really hear many people having card parties anymore. Also ladies I wanna know, "do you even feel that soulmates exist??" Share your thoughts with us fellas on that.
Down below guys is where the ladies hit me back to give their opinion to the questions. Feel free to give some feedback on whether you agree or disagree on what they are saying. Lets have some fun with this and let our voices be heard!!!
« Last Edit: Jan 23, 2008, 11:19am by Mr Daddy Rich »
Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #1 on Jan 22, 2008, 6:32pm »
The question u ask it calls for a conversation. Men dont want a woman whom they can make a life with. They want a good time. men could care less about how i am raiseing my children is my house clean can i cook . it has been my exper that all they care about is how fat and wet my p----y is . I know this happens because women allow it . i could go on and on but that is enough for now. I am a wonderful woman but is there a man that cares about me the woman.
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Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #2 on Jan 25, 2008, 9:00am »
I can see your point on that TeachMeplease. Also men want a playmate vs a soulmate. Its all about where and who you can get it from and how much you can get. Women do it 2 but more times its men. Most men let the looks over ride the person...shouldnt be that way because looks aint everything. I believe everyone's soulmate is our there somewhere...sometimes they are hard 2 find or recognize thru all the bull you go thru. And its really all about the tolerance level....if you know what you want....dont settle for nothing less because at the end of the day you wont be happy. You should look for someone that wants the same things you want out of life if not more...but like I said most men want a playmate and not a soulmate...and thats so so so so true!
Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #3 on Jan 25, 2008, 5:22pm »
I definitely feel there are soul mates out there, only one major problem, men and women think differently, which is where a lot of confusion in relationships comes along. One common ground I believe both men and women have is the fact that I feel we do know what we want in a partner. Where things begin to break down, is a guy may set out to find that perfect partner only he doesn’t really know how to find them with out having his so called “fun”. Guys are willing to say and do certain things just for pleasure purposes, and there are those women out there who allow it. It does not make it right, but if they can get away with it then they figure why not. And when that “perfect” girl comes into their lives it is usually by surprise, but chances are, they know this is definitely the one they want. But in playing their games and such they knew what it was they were looking for and they weren’t willing, and didn’t have, to compromise. Where most women on the other hand start from an early age, looking for Mr. Right and we are not set on playing games just for pleasure, and so we do tend to mature a little faster. And in that maturing we automatically and subconsciously want to believe those guys who seem to be sincere. We feel we have to find that partner sooner more so than later, for some reason. So when that guy comes along, we allow ourselves right away to begin to fall. Then we start to notice things here and there that are things we didn’t really want in our “Mr. Right”, but we have already allowed certain feelings to form and so we do compromise thinking “ok so maybe I set too high of an expectation” or something like that. So bottom line, if you honestly look at it, Guys know what they want and are not willing to compromise. Women know what they want but they do compromise, which is where things fall apart. Of course there are always exceptions to the rules and you can actually even take out the guys and girls and leave it as there are two kinds of people in this world whether guy or girl, and that being those who are willing to compromise and those who are not willing to compromise. And unfortunately those who aren’t willing to compromise can have fun because when it comes down to it they know what they want they eventually will get it but hey if you can have some fun in the meantime why not?
Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #4 on Jan 25, 2008, 5:26pm »
LOL ok so that last post got a little long but i also wanted to comment on the barbeques, and cook outs, and that. One of the main reasons why we don't have as many is the simple fact that we have let our jobs and the material things over take that which should truely matter. Simple as that
Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #5 on Jan 27, 2008, 4:56pm »
i dont really know i mean im young i remeber when i use to go to cookouts with the older cats and stuff i use to have the most fun nice conversation wtith older dudes trying to teach things as well as some hitting on me but it was nice conversation now a days you cant even have a nice cookout, or get to gether with out men talking crazy women doing say you can say them acting real childish im mean im from so the the big get togethers are something thats apart of me, i mean every time i turn around i cant find a dude that has more to say or talk bout then sex or what he like or what he want to do, i mean its a time and place to talk bout but right off back is not good. As far as soul-mates i have asked the same question and i can cant seem to figure out the answer, im brandi, im from harris county ga i have two sons and a baby on the way, me the same good hold some conversation with someone i can talk and learn from, sorry if me having to many kids or whatever is too much for u but i am happy with my babies. I read for fun as well as work out, play with my boys, interior decorate, cheer, whatever makes me happy. yes i do believe that true love and soul mates exist and i dont know where to find and i dont think i will look i will let true love find me
Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #6 on Jan 27, 2008, 5:43pm »
yes i do believe in soulmates. and i do those things every chance i get with my people thats just my way of life.alot of females is just out here lookin for what they can get from a man and not lookin for someone to give them campionship and love. thats not me i want a man thats going to respect me and give me the love that i do him that can look at me everyday and have no regrets about the choices he made to be with me.
Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #7 on Feb 8, 2008, 11:51am »
Every that has responded has made good points. I personally had a cookout for my birthday last year. Believe it or not, some of the people in the neighborhood were shocked as well as some of my friends. Nonetheless, we had a fabulous time. We ate, played all different kinds of music, danced, sang, and played games. The only thing about it was that it had to be a small gathering. People have gotten so far out of control that if their are more than 10 people together either a fight or a shooting breaks out. (CRAZY!!!!!)
As far as there being a soul mate.....I believe they are out there, but we don't want to take the time to either wait or sort through to find out. Everything in society is so rushed, even relationships. People are either rushing to just be in a relationship, or rushing to have a baby because of age, or rushing into marriage either because of age or just for the sake of being married. Hence, why some of us haven't met our soul mates.
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Re: Where Did Dating & Meeting People Go Wrong?? « Reply #8 on Mar 10, 2008, 1:11pm »
Well, they're still taking place back home in Boston...well, during summer...lol! One thing I miss about being home are those very events. They allow for casual meetings of men and women that you may have never come across before. Everyone is chillin', eating, playing spades or dominoes, just having a great time. I haven't had that experience in Atlanta yet. Everyone seems to only want to screw and go to the club.
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